While I was in Marshall, Oklahoma, I decided to take a walk "around town" to see what I could see. I was in a melancholy mood, it being the day after Grandpa's funeral, and the condition of the town didn't help. It occurred to me that my Grandpa's life was pretty closely related to the life of Marshall, where he lived his entire life except for the time he spent on a Navy ship during WWII. As I was blown up and down the empty roads by a strong Spring wind, I thought of Don Huffer's life - a farmer, a sailor, a husband, a father, grandfather, great-grandfather, a church-goer, Republican, traveler, a man who worked hard, made big plans, and loved life. This town, established around 1890 and barely hanging on to life through the post-office, co-op store and one last church, was only a little over 30 years older than he. How must he have felt seeing it pass away in front of him?
These photos are a few from my bittersweet tour of Marshall last month. I'm still clinging to my roots buried deep in the red, red soil of northern Oklahoma.
The family church - weddings, funerals, confirmations, and Christmas pageants. |
Marshall school - est. 1904, closed 1988 |
The old fire truck, used for the parade on Prairie City Days. (They do have a modern one.) |
One of the empty Co-op grain elevators, the train doesn't come through here any more. |
Part of Main Street - plate glass of the bar broken out, small grocery closed for good. |
Destruction and Life. |
Empty playground. |
Among the broken, dead brambles - LIFE and COLOR - roses |
Little red wagon along the backyard I used to play in - it was my great-grandmother's house once. |
Irises my Grandpa planted along the back of his workshop. |
Scrap metal wheels |
Town billboard in the middle of the wide Main Street, news: Huffer funeral. |
To everything there is a season,
A time for every purpose under heaven: A time to be born, And a time to die;
A time to plant, And a time to pluck what is planted;
A time to kill, And a time to heal;
A time to break down, And a time to build up;
A time to break down, And a time to build up;
A time to weep, And a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, And a time to dance;
A time to mourn, And a time to dance;
A time to cast away stones, And a time to gather stones;
A time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to gain, And a time to lose;
A time to keep, And a time to throw away;
A time to keep, And a time to throw away;
A time to tear, And a time to sew;
A time to keep silence, And a time to speak;
A time to love, And a time to hate; A time of war, And a time of peace. —Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
A time to keep silence, And a time to speak;
I know places, houses and streets are really nothing, but when I see empty houses and schools, I think of all the hearts and all the love and all the dreams that lived there. I always think how sad it is, that children walked away to other places - yeah, they took those memories with them but left a lot of emptiness behind. And for some silly reason, my heart kind of grieves.
ReplyDeleteI know. My heart aches as I walk through the town. Even in my childhood, 25 years ago, it had more life. I found some great old film footage from the 40s of a big marching band expo they had there for MANY years. I had fun imagining my grandparents - still newlyweds - in the crowd, having fun.
ReplyDeleteMandisa has a song to Ecclesiastes on her new album... There is a time...
ReplyDeleteOh, she is SOOO good. Love her voice and her songs really speak to me. :)
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